How do I make contact with mature gay men who are interested in CONVERSATION and FRIENDSHIP--NOT SEX? I live in a rather isolated rural area, so there aren't really any local options. Not sure where to start on the internet considering I am not looking for romantic relationships or sex. |
| Not possible. As Gay friendship is simply a prelude to Gay sex. |
I know it's illegal but how many non pedophile gay guys would want to have sex with mature teenagers? ? I know it's illegal but how many non pedophile gay guys would want to have sex with mature teenagers? Anyone know? |
| if they were 16 or older maybe. by the way i'm 19 just for the record lol. depends on the state your in too. some states say the age of consent is 16 so really for some its no issue. but i could get away it with since i look to be 15 or 16yrs old myself. but you know the old joke. its really hot when your 17 but when your 18 its still hot just not as hot. |
Anyone know if any attractive gay men in 20s wouldn't care if they/ or would like to have sex w/ a mature 15? Year old? |
| Sounds like legal side this would be less then good. there might be but this is also pedobear if they do. |
Parents or future mom's or dad's: What would you do if your teen guy was gay/ lesbian & found having sex? I am 16, and have always wondered if parents would treat their guy the same as if they were risking pregnancy/ aids in straight relationship. Pregnancy would obviously be ruled out, but if they were both mature enough to be monogamous with having sex together, would you allow your ( 15, 16, 17) teen to have sex? |
| I don't have guyren, but I do want 4 babies in the future :) I wouldn't care if my son was gay or my daughter was a lesbian. I would be happy for them that they are happy and I would love them regardless of their sexuality. It wouldn't change anything. They'd still be my guyren and I would still love them. I would never let go. I wouldn't be happy if they were having sex at 15, in-fact I wouldn't allow them to do it, but if they're going to have sex they're going to do it behind my back anyways. I would prefer that they have sex when they're 18, because at 16 you're still a young. I'm 17 and still a virgin. I would be happy and okay with them having sex as long as they're in a loving and happy relationship. |
Calling all gay men!: I have a question. Mature people please!? What does men on men gay sex feel like. I know what it looks like, ive seen so many youtube videos, but what do you feel, do you heat up, does it tickle your privates, etc. |
First, you have gone to the wrong site to see men interacting with me. But, know this: the feeling of sex depends on who you are with.
Gay men are with other men because psychologically that is where our brain is at. A woman can do the exact same thing to us and we would not feel the same way. At least that is how it was for me.
My mind is in love with my partner, my body loves what my partner and I do together. Since about 85 to 95% of what we do together is what I did with my (female) wife, I have the comparison to relate to. It all feels much better with a man.
As for the one thing I did not do with my wife: well, that is a personal reaction. A carrot does not do it! Some guys are not comfortable with a$$ play or insertion. So, if that is what you mean; you'll just have to try it. Be care, go slow, use lots of lubricants -- and most of all, do it with the right person. |
My boyfriend confess that he had gay sex in the past but denies he is gay or bisexual should I worried? Me and my boyfriend have dated for four months now. he told me that last year before he dated me he had gay sex because he was insecure and taught that he couldnt get a girlfriend or get laid. I'm his first girlfriend ... he told me that he use to do drugs like E and was very wasted and had sex with a drag queen at his lesbian friend house when they were having a party. Now I have nothing against gay people i feel like everybody should live their life the way they want. I even told him that i love him no matter if he is striaght gay or bisexual and that ill always be his friend even if we dont work out. He knows im not judgemental and i care about him greatly . I do however have a problem with him being on the downlow and lieing to me about what he likes. He denys that he likes guys and he told me that he hasnt had another gay sex experience . However when we first started dating he lied to me about not being a virgin and i took his vcard so im really having trust issues with him . He has confess things but it is always after the event has happen ..he has never really been up front about things with me. When we had sex one time he couldnt get hard ..I find myself to be a very pretty girl and most men do also so should i wonder if he is gay? i mean it would really hurt me knowing that if he cheated on me and i catch him with a man it would hurt me greatly.
If it happen as a mistake I can move on and look past it ..but i dont know how to ask him without him getting defensive. He denys being gay or bisexual and said that he really likes me and love me ect.. and told me that its something he been through and didnt want to hide it since we are starting to get serious. I honestly believe he could be confused i know he loves me we are trying to work together to build up trust. what should i do? i really love him and fell for him hard but I dont want to get hurt either . Can anyone give me some mature advice ? we are both young adults . |
Jealousy is a horrible emotion and you are suffering from it.
Obviously you haven't talked to him enough or asked enough questions in a way that is appropriate to get truthful answers. Of course a guy that wants to be heterosexual won't reveal a gay experience while he's trying to get a girl in bed with him. How would that help?
And I think that you don't know enough about male sexuality (not surprising as most men know next to nothing about female sexuality) but failing to get an erection is both quite common and nothing to do with the beauty of the woman (or man) he is with.
How will you know how he feels if you don't ask and how will you get honest answers if every question you ask is loaded and calls for a declaration of heterosexuality as part of the answer.
A great many guys can feel sexual attraction to the same sex and most of them aren't gay enough ever to let that attraction lead them to have sexual contact with another man.
You have to make it possible for him to tell you the things he knows you don't want to hear. Only then will you be able to trust his answers.
And have you ever encountered a young man older than seventeen who will admit to being a virgin? No, of course you haven't. None of them will (well, hardly any). And once they've said they aren't and you ask for names and details of place and time they know they can't tell you so they clam up. What you want is a conversation where they CAN tell you.
You are asking the wrong questions in the wrong way. Think about how to do it right. |
How can i stop my son from turning gay? he will be three years old next month and every time sex and the city is on the tv he smiles a lot and watches it
i cant stop him from watching it because he knows how the TV works and
i think he is old enough to understand about sex and gay sex because he is a mature 3 year old
im not a bad person because i would prefer my guy to be straight, also gay people have a lower life expectancy i heard so it would be in my sons interest |
| just because he likes the show sex and the city does not mean he is gay. for all you know he likes the boobs and women in short dresses. |
Am I the only gay person that gets annoyed when gay guys and lesbians say they find the opposite sex repulsive? Homosexuality simply means having an attraction only to members of the same sex. It doesn't mean being "sick to your stomach at the thought of the opposite being naked".
I know lots of gays and lesbians saying that they find the opposite sex repulsive. I'm gay but if I'm watching a movie and an actress shows her boobs, am I going to puke or run out of the room screaming? NO. How mature is that? Watch the damn movie; it doesn't mean you have to get turned on.
Do you think homosexuals that call the opposite sex repulsive are hypocrites? When a straight person comments on how "repulsive" gay sex is, we are so quick to scream HOMOPHOBIA. At the end of the day, gays and lesbians have someone's penis and vagina to thank for their very existence(i.e. mom and dad). Is anyone else annoyed by those who act like that? |
| I sometimes get annoyed as well. I think some people are being a bit dramatic. Men don't turn me on but I'm not repulsed by them. If a movie shows a shirtless man or even a penis it doesn't bother me. It just doesn't turn me on. |
Is it gay/appropriate for a preteen to kiss someone of the same sex on the cheek? Guys Im just curious as to is it gay/appropriate for a preteen to kiss someone of same age/gender on the cheek. I know that kiss on lips is a very bad idea especially for a preteen with same gender but Im not quite sure about cheek!
I am asking this question coz im kinda curious as to if its appropriate! Thanks to all mature answers that get put in! |
It all depends how comfortable you are with yourself. I must confess that I have never seen a preteen do this as they are usually still maturing & not thinking that sort of thing. I hope you understand what I am trying to say.
You will get some idiot on here coming out with some stupid remark but that just confirms my statement of how some blokes act towards the subject.
It is an everyday occurrence in mainland Europe. French, Italian etc do this every day, it is a greeting not a message that says 'I fancy you' !!
Unfortunately in this country where men are men & that sort of 'thing' is not normal, it is usually frowned upon.
You do what you feel comfortable doing, but make sure as well that others are comfortable with it.
Best of luck. |